These articles are about mastering your relationships so that you can transform, improve and maintain them. The foundation of all your relationships is the one you have with yourself—your self-love, which is also the premise for loving others. In your experience of reality, everyone is you pushed out, everyone is your mirror. What you assume about yourself, relationships and others is what you experience. Others change without force or manipulation when you change yourself. In relationship mastery, there's no one to change but Self.
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How to Change Your Relationship: NEW ARTICLE If you want to change your relationship in any way there is no one to change but you. Everyone is your mirror, reflecting your consciousness back to you. To change your relationship, be the change you want to experience. There's no need to force or manipulate anyone, mentally or otherwise. Your self-concept must change.
Everyone is Your Mirror: There's really only one relationship secret to transforming all your relationships beyond even that which you may deem possible. And the great secret is: everyone is your mirror, everyone is you pushed out. Learn how others are reflecting your own consciousness back to you. Get to know your reflection. And to change the reflection, change yourself.
Self-Love is to Love Yourself: Self-love is the foundation of your single most important relationship—that with yourself. The golden rule tells us to 'love your neighbour as you love yourself'. At its core you will find the instruction to love yourself first because you cannot truly love others otherwise. Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all.
The Essence of Relationship Mastery
"Everything and everyone is your mirror. Learn to recognise yourself in other people. It is only when you understand what it truly means to see yourself reflected back at you that you can begin to transform your relationships. There is no need to blame others or your 'bad luck'. When you live based on a foundation of self-love and commit to changing your self-concept, miracles will follow beyond what you may even be hoping for right now."—Tania Kotsos